But then I discovered that resolutions don't stick. So I stopped making resolutions, and started making goals.
You see, a resolution is usually a broad, overarching statement. It's too big. A goal, however, is a specific, achievable intention. I don't know, I guess goals seem less intimidating than resolutions.
Mine were always silly, fun goals, usually involving food. One year my goal was to make a pie crust and get it into the pan without it cracking. Another year my goal was to make paper. You get the idea.
And then I got lost in the trenches of motherhood and couldn't find my way out long enough to think of a goal, let alone achieve it.
Finally able to pop my head up and look around, two years ago, I embarked on the Positive Project.
Last January I set two goals for myself:
- to make kale chips, which I did in August (they were disappointing), and
- to stalk a Facebook friend of mine enough to show up in one of those quizzes on her wall, like, "who's in your reindeer family?" or "what does your week with friends look like?" or "which friends will be in the same nursing home as you?" I achieved this goal in November. I showed up in "which 20 names play an important roll in your life?" Yes, twenty. And I told her to do it but give me about 10 minutes to go like and comment on everything on her wall first, but it counts! So glad she was so cooperative (although she was probably happy to do it so I would stop stalking her).
It is so good to have goals.
So good, in fact, that buoyed by my success, I'm back at it this year, with more goals than ever before. I hope I'm not being too ambitious.
- Make reusable cleaning wipes (I know, it's kind of silly, considering the fact that whenever I spray cleaning solution, then wipe with a washcloth, I'm using something reusable to clean, but I want to have a tub of wipes. And I want them to be reusable).
- Try something new from Trader Joes each month. I love Trader Joes. It's such a fun store, and it seems like there's always something new, but I hardly ever get over there because other errands take precedence. And I hardly ever buy anything, because there's just so much to choose from--it's a bit overwhelming, because I want to try all the things. This year, I'm scheduling a once a month visit (I might might take the summer off...), and I have to buy something each time (if you have any suggestions, leave them in the comments).
- Have a prayer focus each month, praying for a specific person (outside of my family) or situation every day for that month.
How about you? Did you make any resolutions or set any goals this year?