But before you even think it, stop. You should know that if one more person says to me, "I don't know how you do it," I will scream. No maybe about it. Once and for all, here is how I "do it." I do what needs to be done because, as the adult, I have to. I am not a saint or a supermom or even very nice sometimes. I do what I can and the rest falls by the wayside because I am only human.
When Hubby's gone, I try to fulfill all of my responsibilities, along with as many of his as I can. Let me just clue you in here, in case you're still not convinced: I always fail miserably. Always.
Here are just some of the things that Hubby does for us, that we miss when he's away.
- Pours drinks at supper time
- Takes boys to Boy Scouts, Cub Scouts, FROG, and karate
- Walks AKD to the bus stop (at 6:22 a.m.!)
- Puts clean dishes away
- Cleans the stove top
- Tells awesome bedtime "no book" stories
- Uses the broken elevator to put Bubby in bed
- Mows the lawn
- Reaches stuff on high shelves
- Kills and removes bugs, spiders, and other creepy crawlies
- Deals with household malfunctions
- Picks apples
- Makes breakfast
- Changes Bubby's bandage
- Plays with us
- Cheers at soccer games
- Puts clean clothes away
- Keeps boys on task with their chores
- Gets the oil changed in our vehicles
- Helps me rearrange furniture
- Takes us fishing and canoeing and kayaking and hiking
- Cleans up after vomiting children
- Lets boys "help" him
- Provides emotional support and parenting back-up
- Hugs and kisses us
- Loves us
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